Life happens. Does it happen to you too? Yes, I guess so! Sometimes we feel like we are rolling and there’s nothing that can stop us. That’s such a wonderful time and everything goes so well and smoothly, no effort required to accomplish tasks and do things. Our energy is high. Sometimes, the right opposite happens and we drag, nothing goes according to our plans, we feel tired, exhausted, the energy is low, we don’t know where to turn and what to do. We feel like we’re in a hole and can’t seem to see a ladder to climb out on to. People tell us “You have to stay positive” but it’s so hard! So what to do and what’s happening?

Well, everything happens for a reason! There is a lesson we should learn. There is a nugget of wisdom, the guarding angels want us to learn a lesson. And sometimes, it takes us a long time to get the message. I can see you now imagining – what’s the lesson? What didn’t I get? Why me? Well, don’t ask “why me” question because it’s not gonna help you. But instead, ask: What am I supposed to learn? And then dig deep. Not getting it? Dig deeper! Still takes time? Well, yes, sometimes it does take time. The messages we’re getting are not right there and centre in front of us. They are gentle touches and we need to learn how to listen to them and pay attention to them. That said, nothing is gonna change until you understand or hear the message and follow the guidance/advice. Once you are on your path, you will see everything else starts falling into place and you start digging yourself from the hole.

Now I can hear you asking – and so how shall I start? I don’t know how?! Well, listen and look around and pay attention to yourself. To your feelings, to your environment, to the moments which make you happy, to those which drain you and why… Sometimes, you can’t do it yourself, you may need a nudge or bigger help. Don’t be afraid of asking for help. It’s not a weakness, it’s a strength! You need to recognize, when you need help. Whether it’s a friend, a mentor or an expert like a psychologist or a coach. It’s all about opening yourself to new possibilities, options, attitudes and perspectives. You may be a very logical person and think – I can analyze the situations all by myself! Yes you can, but you’ll still be stuck in your own way of thinking through your “issues”. You need someone who’ll penetrate your outer layer and helps you to explore completely different territories. That’s how you will grow and shine. Now, ask yourself: Are you ready? Are you committed to yourself? Then take an action and connect with me! I am so thrilled to be a part of your journey!

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